Tired of starting the new year with a pile of debt? Shop smart, and you can enjoy the holidays without putting yourself in the poorhouse. Here are 14 tips to help you make the most of your time and money:

1. Decide how much you can spend.

"Most people go about it all wrong," says Ric Edelman, author of "Financial Security in Troubled Times." "The first thing they do is come up with a list of people (to buy for)."

Instead, Edelman recommends setting your holiday budget before you go near a store.

One big mistake? People overlook the little extras when they draft a budget. Include everything from postage for Christmas cards to holiday party favors and home decorations to the cost of boarding a pet if you're traveling.

2. Make a list and check it twice.

Armed with your budget, make a list of all the people you want to buy for. Then go over the list and decide how much you can spend on each, Edelman suggests. Don't have enough money to cover your holiday budget? Go through it again and cut names or amounts. Once you settle on a dollar amount for each person, that's it. "If you can't afford a sweater, get something else," says Edelman. "Focus on the amount you'll spend, not what you'll buy."

For big families, develop a gift list with other relatives, advises Mark Gorkin, a licensed clinical social worker known as "The Stress Doc." "You shouldn't have to buy something for everyone," he says.

3. Pay cash.

"If you know that you've had trouble in (years) past, do a cash-only Christmas," says Clark Howard, co-author of the book "Get Clark Smart: The Ultimate Guide for the Savvy Consumer" and host of a nationally syndicated consumer call-in show. His holiday advice: Set a limit, take that money out of your credit union or bank, "and when that (money's) gone, it's over."

4. Think of credit cards as short-term loans.

Ideally, you'll want to pay everything off immediately. Have a choice of cards? Always use the card that offers the lowest interest rate. A good idea is to track your credit card spending just as you would if you were writing a check. Remember: It's really easy in the flurry of the holiday spending to run around and not keep track.

5. Put yourself on your shopping list.

It sounds selfish, but it's really smart. "There are things you would not have bought for yourself that you end up, on impulse, buying (for someone else)," says Howard. The best antidote is to give yourself a little splurge, too.

6. Allow enough time for all your holiday preparations.

Who hasn't run out for a gift at the last minute and ended up paying top dollar? But whether you're shopping, baking or wrapping presents to send cross-country, budgeting your time can end up saving you tons of money.

7. Don't overlook the value of intangibles.

Do you want to give someone a gift but don't have the money? If you're already baking cookies for your family, making an extra batch as a present for a neighbor is fairly economical. Want to help a friend who's got a lot on her plate? Offer to baby-sit, walk the dog or take an elderly relative for an outing. The cost is next to nothing, but the gift is priceless.

8. Send e-cards.

They're free -- or only cost a couple of dollars -- and don't require postage. Some even play music, making them a fun, free way to catch up with far-flung friends and family.

9. Just say "no" to toy lust.

If your kids still believe in Santa, help them draft real-world wish lists. In the post-Santa years, set some financial boundaries and give them some choices. "The child still gets a chance to choose," says Gorkin. "But you help the child remember there are still real limits."

10. Look for meaning over glitz.

"Especially when you get into your 40s and you've got everything you need, words and gestures mean more," says Rachel Ashwell, author of "The Shabby Chic Gift of Giving." A thoughtful gift can be anything as simple as a set of dice (message: life's a gamble) to a few beautiful bottles collected for minimum cost at various flea markets or antique marts, Ashwell says.

11. Shop for weddings at Christmas.

Even if your big day is a year away, holidays are a great time to get a deal on bridal gowns and bridesmaids' dresses. "This is the slowest time of the year for bridal apparel shops," says Denise Fields, co-author of "Bridal Bargains: Secrets to Throwing a Fantastic Wedding on a Realistic Budget." "No one goes shopping for wedding dresses in November or December."

12. Get married during the holidays.

Shopping for a wedding date? December offers some pluses in the budget department. "Most churches are already decorated for Christmas, which means you get to save a lot on flowers," says Fields, who estimates that couples can cut at least $500 from their budgets by planning Yuletide nuptials. The downside is that because of holiday parties, many caterers, bands and DJs are booked for the season, which means it's not a great time to plan a huge event. But if you have your heart set on an intimate gathering, you can have the wedding of your dreams and a nice nest egg to start your new life together.

13. Take a vacation.

Resorts and cruise ships are hurting for business, says Edward Hasbrouck, author of "The Practical Nomad: How to Travel Around the World," which makes this a great time for a luxury getaway. "They've paid for the hotel (rooms), and that's a cost they're stuck with," says Hasbrouck. "Similarly, cruise lines are in particularly bad shape.

"If you want to get away, you will see all kinds of hotels offering truly unprecedented bargains," he says. "For not much, if anything, more than Motel 6 prices, you can have a much nicer hotel. This will make it quite tempting to get away over the holidays."

But shop around. The same room at the same hotel can fetch vastly different prices depending on how it is booked. Look up the hotel online, through a broker and through the hotel chain's website; chances are the prices will be different, and you might need the special codes listed on those sites to get the deal, according to Howard.

14. Remember the reason for the season.

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah or Kwanzaa, keeping the holiday's spiritual message front and center is a good antidote to the holiday gimmies. "Instead of spending weekends leading up to Christmas in the mall, it would be a lot better gift to spend your time with your family," says Howard.

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